Summer memories should include sticky popsicle hands, bedtime giggles, beach days, and siblings making memories together. But for many children entering foster care, one of the hardest losses isn’t just leaving home — it’s the possibility of being separated from their brothers and sisters.
A brother who knows your favorite snack.
A sister who remembers your bedtime routine.
Someone who understands where you came from.
And yet, nationally more than 65% of siblings in foster care are separated. Sometimes the reason is heartbreakingly simple: there just aren’t enough licensed foster homes to welcome them in. Right now, 222 children from Charleston County are in foster care, and our community needs 120 more foster homes to meet the need. The greatest need continues to be new foster families willing to welcome sibling groups and teens. These are not just numbers or statistics. These are our neighbors. Children who sit in your child’s classroom, worship in your church pews, ride bikes through your neighborhood. And they need a village.
That First Brave “Yes”
Families say it all the time: “We’d like to foster, but…” And there are plenty of valid reasons that becoming a foster parent is daunting. The truth is, entering into foster care does require thoughtful consideration. It should. Foster care is sacred, important work centered around children and families experiencing crisis and trauma. But one of the biggest misconceptions is that an individual or a family has to be perfect – or has to be 100% ready – before taking that first brave step to consider foster care. But really – you just have to be willing. And the good news is: you were never meant to do this alone. At Thornwell, we believe foster care works best when families are surrounded by support. We are committed not only to licensing foster families across South Carolina, but to walking alongside them every step of the way. And that starts with one brave “yes.”
“We Would Take Siblings, But We Don’t Have Enough Room”
Recently, a sibling group of three children entered foster care. No single foster home in the county had the capacity to take all three children together. Different ages. Different needs. Limited bedrooms. It could have become a story of separation. Instead, it became a story of community. Three Thornwell foster families each said yes to one child. Together, they said yes to all three. The homes were close enough that the siblings could still see one another regularly, share meals, play together, and maintain the relationships that mattered most.
One foster mom, Maria, shared: “Our foster daughter can look out our door and sometimes see her brother coming home. It’s a visual reassurance that he’s healthy and adjusting well.”
Read more stories about these siblings here, or another incredible story of keeping siblings connected here.
What Foster Care Actually Looks Like for a Charleston Family
For many Charleston-area individuals and families, fostering may feel overwhelming.
You may wonder:
- Do we have enough room?
- What about our biological children?
- What if life already feels busy?
The reality is that foster care is beautiful and meaningful — but it is also stretching. It asks families to make room emotionally, mentally, and physically for children who have experienced trauma. But foster parents are not expected to navigate that alone.
At Thornwell, every foster family is supported by a dedicated Family Specialist who walks alongside them throughout the journey. Families receive training, resources, and support rooted in Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI), an attachment-based approach that helps caregivers respond to children with connection, consistency, and compassion.
Support matters because foster parents matter too. When families feel supported, children experience greater stability. Foster parents are more likely to continue fostering. And siblings are more likely to remain connected.
Introducing the Thornwell Foster Care Village
What if space didn’t have to be the barrier keeping siblings apart? What if foster families had built-in support systems designed to help them thrive?
That vision is exactly why Thornwell created the Foster Care Village in Clinton, South Carolina. The Foster Care Village is an intentional community designed specifically to help foster families care for larger sibling groups and teens by removing some of the biggest barriers families face: space and support.
Families in the Village live in large homes designed for sibling groups and pay only $1 monthly rent with utilities included. The best part: a built-in network of foster families walking the same journey together. This is more than housing. It is a community intentionally designed around children and families. Because foster care takes a village.
Foster Care Is Ultimately About Family Restoration
One important thing to know about foster care: the goal is reunification whenever safely possible. Foster parents are not replacing biological families. They are caring for children temporarily while parents and families work toward healing, stability, and restoration.
Foster care is about strengthening families during crisis. It is about helping children feel safe while adults work hard toward healing. It is about being part of a community that believes children deserve stability, dignity, and care during difficult seasons. And every person has a role to play.
You Can Be Part of the Village
Not everyone is called to foster. But everyone can do something. You can:
- Become a foster parent
- Learn more about Thornwell’s Foster Care Village
- Provide meals, babysitting, and encouragement to foster families
- Volunteer to mentor or tutor youth in foster care
- Pray for children, parents, and caregivers
Small acts of support create stronger communities for children. And sometimes, the first step is simply being willing to learn more. Because children in Charleston County cannot wait for the “perfect” time. They need caring adults, supportive communities, and safe homes now.
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